Divorce Coaches

Linda Cohan MSW, CPC

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Home 169 Warren Avenue Suite #2 Boston MA 02116 Phone: (508) 291-5397 Website: www.lindacohan.com

Linda Cohan has over 25 years experience combining clinical social work, human resource consulting and for the past 15 years executive coaching, http://www.lindacohan.com. She works with all levels of professionals in organizations to increase productivity, improve morale and develop a climate of leadership that gets results.

As a neutral coach facilitator, Linda is an active member of the Mass Collaborative Law Council in both the family and civil domain. She was the co-chair for the civil practice Committee for 4 years and co-chaired the Metro West practice group for 2 years. Currently, Linda is one of the project coordinators for the MCLC/MCAD Pilot Project. In May 2014, Linda was on the faculty that led introductory collaborative law training for 90 civil and family practitioners in Madrid. Spain.

In addition to obtaining her BA and Masters in Social Work from Boston University, Linda has also had training in mediation through the Worcester Community Action Council and is a collaboratively trained coach through the International Association of Collaborative Professionals. Linda received advanced coaching certification through Success Unlimited Network, and is certified through the Lynne Learning Labs to train and use the assessment tool- Index for Emotional Intelligence.

Lynn K. Cooper Ed.D., A.B.P.P.

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Psychologist, Family Mediator, Collaborative Law Divorce Coach Address 262 Kenrick Street Newton MA 02458 Phone: (617) 527-3152 Fax: (617) 332-6442 Website: lynnkcooper.com

Lynn K. Cooper, Ed.D., A.B.P.P., is a licensed and Board-Certified clinical psychologist, a divorce mediator certified by the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation, and a collaborative coach, with an office in Newton, MA. She is a past president, Certification Committee chairperson and current member of the Board of Directors of the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation, and she is also a member of the Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council and the International Academy of Collaborative Professionals.

Stephen K. Hitner

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Divorce Coach, Consultant, and Mediator Address 160 Main Street Marlborough MA 01752 Phone: (508) 335-0069 Website: www.usdivorcemediation.com

Stephen Hitner is well-acquainted with the Massachusetts divorce process. After spending hundreds of thousands of dollars from 1996 till 2008 to get through the litigation process, he set out to bring guidelines and structure to the divorce laws in Massachusetts. In 2009 he was appointed by the Joint Committee on the Judiciary to work with representatives of the Legal Bars including the Mass Bar, the Boston Bar and the Women’s Bar. As a pro-active member of the Alimony Reform Task Force he gained the understanding of the needs of both parties of divorce, and the destructive process and outcomes of divorce litigation. Stephen has the ability to bring people together to negotiate a fair settlement so that they both can move forward with their lives.

Stephen Hitner is not an attorney, rather he is a person who went thru the process and believes that people who once were great friends should be able to continue as great parents after divorce. The fact that in many cases children are involved the major focus should be in their best interests. Divorce is the end of a marriage, it need not be the end of a family, especially when children are involved.

Stephen will strive to keep divorcing couples in control of their divorce with fairness to both sides. The last thing divorcing couples want is to have complete strangers make decisions for them that will control the rest of their lives. As a past educator, he will educate you to the Massachusetts divorce laws and the divorce process so that both parties can make informed decisions. He is a member of the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation.

David M. Poles LMHC, CRC, LADC1

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Recovery and Life Coach Newton Counseling Center Address 10 Langley Road Suite 200 Newton MA 02459 Phone: (617) 332-7588 Fax: (617) 332-7863 Website: http://www.newtoncounselingcenter.com

David Poles is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Licensed Alcohol and Drug Counselor and a Certified Rehabilitation Counselor. He is also a trained Coach. Since 1995 he has empowered hundreds of clients to live more satisfying lives based on each person’s own definition of success. In private practice since 2006, David offers individual sessions, marital and premarital couples counseling sessions, family education and support meetings for loved ones of addicts, and both court and school ordered substance abuse evaluations. David specializes in empowering late age adolescent and adult males, with a focus on improving relationships, job performance, improved self-esteem and reduction of harmful compulsive and addictive behaviors.

David is a graduate of UMASS Boston’s Counseling and School Psychology Graduate program. He is also a graduate from Southern Vermont College, having an undergraduate degree in Criminal Justice. In addition, he is a member in good standing with both Recovery Coaches International and the International Association of Coaching.

David is active in both his community and place of worship. He is open to discussions of spirituality and faith if the client wants to explore this realm of life.

Dena Ray Ph.D.

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Licensed Clinical Psychologist Address 65 Rice Road Wayland MA 01778 Phone: 508-655-8683 Website: DrDenaRay.com

Our relationships are among the most significant factors in our happiness and well-being. And yet, sometimes, despite all our best efforts, a relationship will end. Psychotherapy can help you manage this difficult transition with compassion, understanding and integrity. When these relationships are in turmoil, I can help the individuals and couples and children to navigate the challenges of break-ups and divorce.

Beth H. Ross MSW, LICSW

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Clinical Social Worker/Therapist/Divorce Mediator/Collaborative Coach Address 866 Washington Street Canton MA 02021 Phone: (781) 821-4606 Mobile: (781) 249-2156 Fax: (781) 821-4606 Website: mendingfencesinstitute.org

Beth is the founder of Mending Fences Institute. With over 20 years of experience helping individuals and families to resolve conflict and establish clear boundaries, she brings practical solutions and emotional healing to each case. Beth is adept at handling complex family dynamics whether it is trauma, relationship issues, learning disabilities, transitions or reunification.

She uses eclectic therapeutic modalities such as family system theory, individual play therapy, CBT (cognitive behavior therapy), and empowerment strategies with a focus on practical solutions that improve the lives of her clients.

More recently her focus has been on reunification of family members; divorce mediation; and helping families make the transition from married couples with children to two co-parents who communicate well and share time with their children. Her success is augmented by her extensive experience working with children and teens.

She is certified as a Collaborative Coach, Divorce Mediator, therapist and teacher. As a board member of the Divorce Center, chairperson of the Advanced Parenting Education Committee, and a member of the Southeastern Collaborative Practice Group, Beth guides families through evaluating the situation, understanding all parties’ perspectives, establishing ground rules for communication, and generating goals.

Vicki Shemin J.D., LICSW, ACSW **

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Boston Law Collaborative Address 99 Summer Street Suite 1600 Boston MA 02110 Phone: (617) 439-4700 Website: www.BostonLawCollaborative.com

With more than three decades of indispensable contributions to the legal sector, Vicki L. Shemin, J.D., LICSW, ACSW, has been recognized for her professional success as an attorney at Boston Law Collaborative, LLC, a multidisciplinary law firm notably devoted to an alternative conflict resolution orientation to the practice of law. With her dual-degree in clinical social work and family law, Ms. Shemin is distinctively well-suited to offer clients an array of dispute resolution options including mediation, collaborative law, consultation and coaching, settlement negotiations, parenting coordination, guardianad litem evaluative opinions, pre-marital and post-nuptial agreements – and even has a sub-specialization in handling cases for those interested in working on “agreements to stay married.”

Her interest in “paying it forward” is evidenced both in the writing and publication of her scholarly articles and chapter for “A Practical Guide to Estate Planning” for Massachusetts Continuing Legal Education, Inc. (MCLE), as well as in her time that was devoted to being an adjunct instructor in family law, ethics and mental health law at Boston University School of Social Work, and as a guest lecturer on mediation, collaborative law, diversity, domestic violence and power imbalance issues in family law cases, post- divorce financial planning, and co-parenting topics for the American Bar Association, MCLE, Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council and Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation, Inc. (MCFM).

Attorney Shemin is also a Florida Supreme Court certified family law mediator and has also been credentialed as a certified family mediator by MCFM, has earned a 10.0 “excellent” AVVO rating, and has recently been inducted into the Worldwide Registry for her many accomplishments. An active member within her industry, Attorney Shemin is a founding member of the national organization, Academy of Professional Family Mediators; an Executive Board Member of MCFM; and co-chair of the Greater Boston Collaborative Law Practice Group.

Attorney Shemin is currently working on a book entitled – “Letters To Ex-Spouses:…And I Just Wanted You To Know” – combining her interests in psychology and law, which she fervently believes will be a contribution to those professions, as well as to the fields of medicine and theology.  (If interested in contributing anonymously to the book, please contact Attorney Shemin directly.)


Heidi Werther

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Address 67 Cynthia Road Needham MA 02494 Phone: (617) 365-9550

Heidi Werther, a mediator and professional coach, works with individuals, groups, and families helping them to realize they have options; they have choices. As a family mediator, she specializes in divorce related matters including child custody, support, parenting plans, and modifications. She facilitates conversations empowering her clients to uncover what’s important to them; to allow them to resolve conflict, move forward and develop creative solutions that work for them. Heidi knows that her clients are the best to determine how to move beyond their conflict. She values the long-term benefit that communicating during the divorce process can bring.

Heidi obtained her Master of Science, Mediation and Applied Conflict Studies from the Woodbury Institute at Champlain College. She is also a Certified Professional Co-Active Coach through CTI, Coaches Training Institute. Additionally, she has completed numerous mediation and negotiation workshops in the Boston area.